Today, it is long awaited Nirmala’s Marriage. After long time, probably after Shankar’s marriage (Nirmala’s Brother) this is the marriage i was fully involved and enjoyed the occasions with all our relations and friends. Yesterday, the way it was rained we didn’t think that we could make up for her marriage but as soon as the rain got stopped me and my family members were reached the marriage hall. Though, Appu opted to go by VAN with my parents me and vinoth had planned to go by Bike for marriage. From my house we both started at around 6 O clocks and reached the marriage hall around at 7:30 PM. There, I had a chat with few of our relations meanwhile; I saw purushoth who is my best friend in my school days and my Hari uncle families were lived in their rent house for past few years. After 10th we both stopped our studies and started to work. But after few years I had started my studies and he continued with his work. Since he recently got married, was discussing about his marriage life. End of the discussion, he advised me to never ever give-up my parents and brothers even after marriage. The reason for his advice was, before marriage he was able to spend for his mother but after the marriage it was questioned by his marriage partner because of that he had to fight with her and now his mother is feeling bad about it. I feel pity for his situation. Meantime the reception got started and then I met Parthi , Ruban , Gayathri, Mogana along with Gandhi’s (Nirmala’s Sister) family and few of their relation. After that, I had my dinner with family members and we started to spend our time with Gandhi’s daughters. For passing the time we had shown few magic tricks and all the kid’s were enjoyed that. Around at 12 o clock all were started to sleep. Since I didn’t get sleep was trying to sleep meanwhile I could saw my Hari uncle and aunty were not sleeping and seriously discussing something. Finally, around at 3 O clocks it got my sleep.
Morning, I was woke up at around 5:30am and was surprised that no one was doing any marriage customs and even the miruthangam music was not performed and the poosari was also sitting just like that and didn’t perform anything. Actually, the Muhurtham timing was 6 to 7:30 am only. By the time they prepared the marriage customs it was around 7:20 am so they skipped most of the marriage customs and finished everything in a hurry till tie a Knot. I never saw such worst service in marriages. The marriage was done from boy side. He has very big family but didn’t see anyone to take the responsibility of doing the marriage it was total mess. My uncle’s family has involved so many marriages in their life but they never had such situation especially for their daughters. I was really disappointed for the marriage which didn’t happen as they would have liked. Meantime, I heard that yesterday my uncle was fell down while he was paring his bike and his backbone was dislocated and he couldn’t walk. Same time, I saw from boy side they were demanding Rs 30,000/- for marriage expenses. They didn’t even think about our uncle’s critical position. After our uncle’s shown Nirmala’s account statement they have accepted for performing further customs. After seeing all this, My mother, Our aunty and Gandhi all were crying about Nirmala who will be in Singapore in another 10 days and might come after 1 year only.
About Nirmala
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She is 2nd daughter and last member of our Hari uncle’s family. Among our relations they only very close to our family. As a family we have high regards to their family because we both families are identical in our actions and thoughts. After Shanker got married and went to Abu Dhabi only Nirmala taken care of their parents now she is also going for Singapore. Since my Hari uncle got injured I feel sorry for my aunty and promise we will give our support for them. Also, I wish marriage couple to hold each other in their good and bad times also have trust and faith in their marriage life. Wish them Happy and Prosperous Married Life.
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