It has been long time since I
wrote blog. There is so many good and bad things are happening around me. I
just want to spent few minutues to share those. When things change differently I
might enjoy to look back those.
1)
It was the day mom , our relations and I went
to seeing the girl for appu. Before we
entered inside the house itself I thought they didn’t know how to respect. But still
we proceeded to enter in her house after the initial talk with girls parents
and brother came to know appu himself had finished all the talk for marriage. But
when we asked about few things as per customs we din’t get the response we
suppose to. I thought when we explain to appu about this he will understand and
questions them. But it happened other way around he questions us as if we were
created the problem. That was the day I understood for him me and family is nothing in front of
that girl.
2)
After few days
back again i had a fight with him for not caring about our family and giving
importance to that girl and her family. That day, he challanged me,scolded me ,
disrespected me and eventuality made me understand that I am nothing for him.
08-07-2012
3)
After few days again when I was on street, I saw
the girl’s mother was scolding me. Though, I was trying to avoid her that girl
was seeing me and spitting. I can’t tolerate that so i went to that girl’s
house and had a dispute meanwhile my mother also came with me. The entire girl’s
family was using disgraceful words and disgracing my mother and I. in-spite of
appu watching everything again he supported that girl and disgraced me like
anything in the public. I cried, begged, was on his feet but still he treated
me like nothing. He didn’t understand single bit that we were trying everything
for this future. Finally, saranya called her uncle and parents to discuss the matter with him. The outcome is we are no more required for him. He has decided his future. I can’t believe he has given so much of importance to that girl inspite of she disgracing and trying to beat my mother in front him. It was one of the disgraceful days I never want to be remembered. My mother and I cried almost a week. Still, my heart feels heavy when I am thinking the words he spoken about me and mother. In my life time it was the most disgraced unforgettable moment that too from my own brother whom I always talk to anyone about his talent and his skills. Lastly, He let me and my mother down. Hope he will understand about that girl and his family soon, and god saves him
