After long time...

Its almost two years since I wrote this Blog during this period so many things happened in my life. There are moment to cherish, forgive, achieve and remember. Some memorable moments are

Birth of Krishiya
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20th November 2012 - It was the day when god blessed me and saranya with my cute little princess krishiya.  A day before saranya gave birth to her we all felt whether she can able to manage that but she has shown courage and resilience to gave birth to krishiya. When krishiya came out to this world and opened her eyes in-front of every one first she looked at which meant lot to me and the moment to cherish.

Return of  Appu
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After few months Appu blessed with Sandeev came to our house and introduced sandeev to us. though i had so much of angry against him for whatever he did against us couldn't react when
he carries with his son. Though i am happy to see him with his son the moment doesn't make me to react what it is suppose to be it was the moment to forget and forgive and go on with your life.

Krishiya First Birthday
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We have celebrated first birthday for our little princess krishya. After long time it was the function appu has joined with us with his wife and son. Throughout the birthday celebration krishiya was quite and looks cute all the she gave was really beautiful. It was the function started well and ended well

Construction
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Since Appu also came back we started our construction unlink last time we didn't face much of issues from our neighbours and relations. It was the important moment in our family.

18/10/2012 – Seemantham

Disgraceful moment - 29th August 2012

Though, I had memorable experience on delhi didn’t enjoy much due to family problems.  When I came back from delhi there wasn’t any change in Appu.  After I came to home he stayed only for 8 days. It was worst ever period in our family he did all the outrageous things to us and did things to our family no human ever would have done for his entire life.  Being a girl who last his mother at the age of 5 and rise by deaf father. When no one was to support her she took the challenge and started to work to save his father at the early age. After all the struggling she married to a family doesn’t show care and provide support.  In-spite of all these she delivered the 3 children whom was her world. Due to family crisis she started to work for earning.  Being a sinus patient and prone for health problems she doesn’t care about herself. She never let her children down on any situation. Being a role model for every mother dedicated all her life to her children and her 3 children are her world. she sacrificed entire life to her children. Only she did wrong was, being a innocent mother she believed in everything, trusted everyone, given so much of care, abundant love, prayed god to be with his children forever and always thought of welfare of her children as prize of this  at last on 29^th August 2012 he left from our home with a deliberate infliction of pain and suffers to our family and when we all feel the pain being to miss him he didn’t even acknowledged any one and did extremely heartlessness act to my mother which will be pain forever to her and my family till our death.  He betrayed us and used my mother as a weapon for all his wrong doing  and made the world to believe that my mother accepted the girl and her family.  Acted smartly with his entire move and succumbed to the girl and her family believed on their words. He disgraced my mother and family.  Being there with us for past 30 years in all crisis situation when he started to come good in life he thrown away my mother and my family like nothing. He trusted the friends and relations who listens his words to fulfill their wish. Finally, he destined to a girl and devoted his life to a disgrace family by tying knot on 3^rd sep 2012 add to this to make a proud of girl and her family  on 6^th Sep 2012 he conducted reception with all his opportunist  friends and relatives.

I believe in GOD am waiting for his time to give the answer for me and family.  The persons who ever betrayed us involved in this marriage and use this opportunity to disgrace me and my family hope they will get their time to feel the same pain what my Mother and family is going through.

Counting Days…………… 

Delhi Transition - 17-07-2012 to 20-08-2012

After I had meeting with Freescale ASIA head,  I have been asked by management to get the KT from CSC office.  Meanwhile,  my colleagues  Sathish and Naresh also joined with me on the hotel where I stayed. 

We have started out KT on 30^th Aug 2012 on CSC office. There I have meet CSC folks  Vipin, Rakesh and Samir.  Vipin was giving KT for SMS transition I had good experience and co-operation from him to complete the KT successfully.  Meanwhile, we have changed our Guest House to another Hotel called Orance Pie near to CSC office.  During our stay I and Raj visited the great “Taj Mahal’  which I can say best experience in my life and memorable one. Also I and Sathish, Naresh did visit historical places like Delhi museum, Jumma Masjid, Akshardham, Qudip Minar, india gate, parliament and Red Fort. Also, I have visited shopping places like Rajiv Chowk,Pallika Bazzar, chandhini chowk and Great India Mall. Most of the time i commuted by Delhi Metro and Rikshas. Especially Delhi metro was the one of the best transportation facility have seen in delhi where it connected most the of the places very easily.  After all these I and Sathish have returned back to Chennai on 20-08-2012.

 

About Transition

This was a great opportunity in my professional career where I have been given chance to assess myself and handle different experience.  From the date i was there in delhi till I came back to Chennai each day was new experience, meeting different people, visiting many places and see the their culture. I did my best till the last moment hope this will give the more confidence and take me to the new level in my professional career. 

Travel to Delhi, Noida

Meeting with Freescale ASIA Head 16-07-2012

After two days staying in the guest house. On Monday we went to client office and meet South Asia IT head. Mr. Natraj it was a great opportunity for me to meet a person on that level. First day, we had an introduction with him he explained about the Freescale and its IT operations.  He was so humble and facilitated us for logistics. It was really great opportunity to meet high level people.

My First experience on Air

I have been informed by mgmt that I have to fly on 14-07-2012 to Delhi, noida for transition. I have collected air ticket from HCL on 13-07-2012. After collecting the ticket saranya and I prepared the luggage for travel. Next day, her parents came with their CAR and picked, saranya my mother and me to the airport. It was around at 11 o clock I have completed all the security process and said bye to my family. Then, few minutes of bus travel I boarded the flight with my colleague Mr.varadarajan at 11:00 am it was really thrilling experience travelling in flight first time. The two and half an hour travel look felt like only half an hour travels.  I really enjoyed it flying 40,000 feet around 850 K.M speed. When I get down from flight I joined with Varadarajan and took the CAB to the guest House.

My US visa interview (09-07-2012)

It has been a 3 months since I was assigned to new project. I have been told to take up the SMS/SCCM transition and might required to travel US. Finally, they gave the date for US interview on 09-07-2012 Monday.  It was the next day when I had a dispute with that girl. I went to US embassy and attended the interview. After completing the initial process I went to attend the interview with one American lady. I did well for her questions but I was not been granted Business visa because of not able to convince them for 4weeks of stay.  Though, I didn’t go through the interview it was a great experience to have Face to face interviewed with American lady.  In-spite of VISA got refused management have already changed the transition location to Delhi, Noida. 

Sad days in my life

It has been long time since I wrote blog. There is so many good and bad things are happening around me. I just want to spent few minutues to share those. When things change differently I might enjoy to look back those.

1)       It was the day mom , our relations and I went to seeing the girl for appu.  Before we entered inside the house itself I thought they didn’t know how to respect. But still we proceeded to enter in her house after the initial talk with girls parents and brother  came to know appu himself  had finished all the talk for marriage. But when we asked about few things as per customs we din’t get the response we suppose to. I thought when we explain to appu about this he will understand and questions them. But it happened other way around he questions us as if we were created the problem.  That was the day I understood  for him me and family is nothing in front of that girl.

2)      After few days back again i had a fight with him for not caring about our family and giving importance to that girl and her family. That day, he challanged me,scolded me , disrespected me and eventuality made me understand that I am nothing for him.

08-07-2012

3)      After few days again when I was on street, I saw the girl’s mother was scolding me. Though, I was trying to avoid her that girl was seeing me and spitting. I can’t tolerate that so i went to that girl’s house and had a dispute meanwhile my mother also came with me. The entire girl’s family was using disgraceful words and disgracing my mother and I. in-spite of appu watching everything again he supported that girl and disgraced me like anything in the public. I cried, begged, was on his feet but still he treated me like nothing. He didn’t understand single bit that we were trying everything for this future. Finally,  saranya called her uncle and parents to discuss the matter with him. The outcome is we are no more required for him. He has decided his future.  I can’t believe he has given so much of importance to that girl inspite of she disgracing and trying to beat my mother in front him.  It was one of the disgraceful days I never want to be remembered.   My mother and I cried almost a week. Still, my heart feels heavy when I am thinking the words he spoken about me and mother.  In my life time it was the most disgraced unforgettable moment that too from my own brother whom I always talk to anyone about his talent and his skills. Lastly, He let me and my mother down. Hope he will understand about that girl and his family soon, and god saves him

Wish You a Very Special Happy Birthday Saranya !!!!

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Wish you that this birthday is as special as you are.

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I am your gift for this birthday, you saw me on 09-06-2012, look me again
for my gift

Good News !!!!! (27-03-2012)

 

This was the most memorable day, when I went to saranya’s house my mother-in-law gave me a  handful of chocolates and told I am going to be a father soon. I was so happy to hear becoming a father and congratulated saranya. Subsequently, the news spread to  all of her relations and I got a call from her uncle congratulating me. Meantime, my mother-in-law wanted to confirm with one more doctor then asked me to inform to my parents. Next day, as planned they went  To one more clinic and confirmed the result positive. Then, she had  a talk with my mother and confirmed about saranya conceived. My parents were also happy to hear the news and shared their happiness with my brothers too. Altogether,  it was a different feeling for me don’t have words to express J

On the verge to Marriage...

August 1 - First Visit (I and Mom)

After searching many alliances my family members have fed up to see alliance for me. then I decided to go with mother and see the girl, if we satisfied then we plan to go with our family members.

As decided, on this day my mother and I went to see Saranya. Before entering her house from front of house I made a call to her father and he welcomed us. When we entered there were around 7 to 8 members welcomed. initially, i had talk with their son-in-law
(Mr. Shiva) and then talk with all of their family members. after few minutes they introduced saranya to me and made her to sit on the floor. On first sight I have impressed with her traditional attire and look. After had a few words with her and family members we came back to our home.

August 2 – Confirmation

On next day, my mother had a confirmation from my side and said our liking about saranya and proceeded with further talk with her mother. Then, next day itself they proposed and agreed to come and see our family.

August 3 – First Visit (From Girl Side)

On next day, from saranya house around 9 members came and had a formal talk with our family members and proposed for one more visit with their relations.

August 7 – Second Visit (From Girl Side)

Again, from saranya house around 11 members came and get introduced with our relatives. On that meeting coincidentally found that one of our relatives are known to their relative’s family. After that there was a mutual consent from both the parties for further progress.

August 15 – Second Visit (From our side)

Subsequent to that from our side, our family members and relatives including shankar who came from onsite all are went to saranya house to see their family. There, first time my father, brothers and relatives had a talk with saranya and her family members. Since I was on work couldn’t join with them on 2^nd visit but my brother’s and nirmala shared what happened there.

August 21 – B (Food) 3^rd visit (From our side)

For this visit, my mother invited her uncle “thiruvenkatam” who is the well wisher for my mother from her side relations. After we introduced all of our mother’s relations and mutual consent from both the side, we went to have the custom lunch on their home where 2^nd time I have looked saranya and had stomach full of lunch and, also visited her uncle’s house. It was the first time I had a look at her twin sister and got confused that it was saranya J.

September 11 –G (Food) 3rd visit (from girl side)

After a bit of gap, again from saranya house came for custom lunch. For this, my mother took the challenge of preparing cook herself with the help of our relatives. Though, she is very well at cooking we feared whether she can manage that much people. But she managed well and cooked very well and got the appreciation from our relatives for the food.

September 30 – Taking Cloths (Speaking 2^nd Time)

October 2 – G (Invite) 4^th Visit (from girl side)

October 4- I Made first Call and Mail

October 6 – I received first message from her for send off to munnar

October 17 – Engagement
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to be continued....

Bachelor’s Party with our Friends (15-01-2012)

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It’s been long time since I gave a party to my friends. Since I wanted much awaited party to be a memorable one to all of my friends have dragged as much as possible. Finally it happens to be a bachelor’s party. I have fixed the date and place to give the bachelor’s party to our friends.  It was on 15 jan 2012 at Ambica Empire have booked for dinner party. Along with my brothers have invited my friends Senthil, Sasi, Eswar, Dharani, Raman, Rajesh, Sekar, Ramesh, Shivam,Shiva and , Shanmugam.  The only missed outs were Shankar, Saravanan and babuji. It was the first time my brothers were part of the party in 3 start hotel with my friends. We all enjoyed with delicious food and shared our joy with everyone.  It was one of the most memorable parties in my life before my marriage and it happen to be the best one. I would like to thanks my friends being part of my bachelor’s party and make this one memorable J

Reception  02-02-2012 

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Marriage 03-02-2012

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My First Valentine’s Day (14-02-2012)
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I never celebrated or got the chance to celebrate Valentine’s Day in my life. Since, it came after few days of my marriage I wanted to be a memorable one for saranya.  Meantime, she was stayed in her home and I didn’t get the chance to meet her on Valentine’s Day. But, next day have decided to meet her and make the day memorable one.  On next day evening around at 6:00 clock have started from my home and bought some chocolates, flower and gifts and around at 8:00 o clock have reached her home. When I was entering home her father was away for some purchase, only she and her sister’s daughter were present on the home. After shockingly entering home I surprised her by giving flowers by expressing my love then gave chocolates to her and jaishree (sister’s daughter) and presented the gift to make the occasion memorable one.  She was really shocked and expressed her gratitude towards me.  After few days when I went to take her back home she surprised me with her valentine gifts. It was really nice and special feeling to express our love with each other. I wish this will continue forever till our life J

Our first Movie –Nanban (11-02-2012)
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After marriage, I wanted to go for a movie which is memorable one.  Since there isn’t any good movie released have decided to go for shankar’s movie nanban. As I missed the show on satyam ; have requested Vinoth to book the ticket in Devi theater. After few minutes of drive have reached Devi Theater and collected the ticket from Vinoth and entered for show around at 6:30 pm. We both really enjoyed the movie especially the satyan’s acting was superb. After long time, have got the satisfaction of watching a good movie from vijay, it was not an ordinary vijay movie where punch dialogues and un imaginary scenes were present.  Though it was remake of “3 idiots” shanker did his best to satisfy the audience in tamil version in his unique direction.  It was really nice and memorable movie to remember for our life time J

Important Dates

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 1st party 05-02-2012 (custom party) from our side went to their house·       

 05-02-2012 to 10-02-2012 we stayed (maru veedu) on their house 

 12-02-2012 (custom party) from saranya side and we both come back to my home ·    

 13-02-2012 stayed in my house·       

 14-02-2012 to 19-02-2012 saranya stayed in her house·      

 20-02-2012 comes back to my home ·    

 25-02-2012 taken her to their home·       

 26-02-2012 virundhu with her sister house·       

 11-02-2012 virundhu with her brother ·       

 17 and 18 On March went to kumbakonam·        

 24 and 25 On March thali function      

 Aprial 1st uncle house

Diwali Celebration...2011

It was a special Diwali for me, after my engagement it was the first festival celebration. Though, I was expecting to have joyous celebration it didn’t happen to be the one. Because of client visit on my project, I didn’t get leave for this diwali so till 6 o clock have spent in office itself. After 6 o clock started back to home and joined with my friends for diwali celebration. Initially, eswar brought some crackers we fired for some time. Later, we bought rockets then, as usual went to raman terrace where we fired all the rockets and flower pots. After spending a few hours in raman house we came out. Meantime, eswar was asking to go for walk around to see the glimpse of diwali celebration on next streets. As we walked on Next Street we saw M.K. Stalin celebrating diwali with his family firing some fancy crackers. He was very simple wearing “lungi” and watching the proceedings. After him, when we crossed next road we saw “Gowndamani” entering in his house. Suddenly, sasi called him and wished him for diwali. After him, we all wished him for diwali. Then, we all started back to home by saying Good bye to Diwali hoping next diwali will be much more special than this :-)